Has Anyone Had a Long-Term, Successful Open Relationship?

 

Long-term success in an open partnership is possible? We don't see them in the media, and most couples choose to keep their relationship secret. When Von Heidegger spoke to a participant who was blissfully single but was curious about open relationships, he addressed his concerns.*

A relationship may mean so many different things depending on how you define it. In my personal experience, I know many people who like having sex with anyone they choose, and it works for them. When it comes to hooking up, they are given the freedom and authority to do so. Having said that, I believe that any kind of relationship necessitates some level of dedication on the part of both parties. A willingness and an energy to care about the other person's needs, to talk about their concerns, and have open discussions about it is what I'm looking for.

Your long-term hookup friends may suffice for you; you may not have to look further for other people who are eager to do the same thing. It's feasible, in my opinion, but I also wonder: if this is working for you, what would make you want to stay in this relationship for the long haul? Why do you believe that your open relationships have failed? 

Are you affected by the belief that it's wrong to be like this? Is it your belief that you should be in a long-term relationship? Because if it's working for you and you're comfortable with it, that's terrific. It's great that you've discovered a way to be yourself without feeling constrained.

 As well, I believe that any connection worth having necessitates some level of effort. It doesn't matter if you're monogamous or non-monogamous. So, simply coming and going may not be an option. However, if it works for you, then that's terrific. Don't be afraid to take a risk.