Is Your Relationship Just Beginning? To Help You Build a Healthy Relationship Part 02

Take some time to yourself.

Having a new romantic relationship is exhilarating. Your life as a newlywed couple is so exciting that it's easy to let the routines of your single life fade away. In order to spend more time with your new partner, you might cut back on the number of times you see friends or the amount of time you devote to a hobby. Even though wanting to be together all the time is a great sign, giving up your own independence and social life in the process could lead to a disastrous relationship. Make sure you don't lose your friends or yourself, no matter what happens. If you're constantly texting or calling, it's best to pretend that nothing has changed between you and your friends (because it should!). As a result, you should not be searching for a partner who will spend the rest of your life with you.

Do not have important conversations via text.

When it comes to checking in on your partner on a regular basis and sending funny memes to make them laugh while they're at work, texting is a modern blessing. Making plans or laughing at TikToks should be the extent of texting's utility. If you want to talk about your feelings for one another or have a disagreement, you should do it face-to-face. As well as making the conversation feel awkward in-person, texting can also lead to more misunderstandings because of translation issues. Let your partner know if you're having an argument and you can't even talk on the phone, you'll discuss it when you're able to do so.

savor the experience

I'm going to tell you another story from my life: My hair and make-up have always been a source of anxiety for me before going on dates, and I've always read too much into the tiniest signs that they don't like me as much as I had hoped they would. When you're in the beginning stages of a relationship, the "new relationship bubble" has yet to burst, and the honeymoon phase feels like it will last forever. When your heart is on the line, it's perfectly normal to be apprehensive or hesitant to open up. Don't forget to have fun, however apprehensive you may feel about starting a new relationship. Take note of the little things, try something new, and make sure you're having a good time with each other.

Keep your ex-boyfriend out of the conversation.

When it comes to a new relationship, it's natural to compare it to your previous one, especially if you were not the one to break it off. We're supposed to put the past behind us, right? The good news is that your new partner doesn't want to hear about your ex, which is a relief. Having a "dating history" discussion is necessary, but bringing up an ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend should be avoided unless absolutely necessary. It's not healthy to compare your current relationship to past ones, but it's equally harmful to do so instead of simply appreciating it for what it is. For the love of Elsa, just letting it go (like, for real).

Do not be afraid to express your emotions.

The beginning of a relationship can lay the groundwork for the future, so pay attention to how you communicate and resolve conflicts. Consult a relationship therapist (there is no such thing as too early!) or read up on healthy ways to fight if you're not sure what to say when you disagree with your partner.

Words are less important than deeds.

People have different views on labels, but at the end of the day, you need to know what people think of you. In the end, it doesn't matter if they say they'll take you to the beach or introduce you to their parents if they aren't consistent in their plans to do so (instead of just telling you). Pay attention to what they're doing instead of what they're saying to get a better understanding of what they mean. Your confusion won't be due to lack of concern on their part.