Although online dating can be a smooth outlet between the real world dating, there are still people you need to be aware of that are not truthful. Not everyone tells the truth. You might meet a woman who is already married and unhappy in her relationship. She may even tell you she's single, but in reality - she's not.
For women, it is important to be careful with who you are going out with. Always do a background check before confirming the date. There are many men out there that do not have good morals and you want to pick only from the best. You want a man with a strong sense of morals and knows right from wrong. Don't settle for anyone less. If you are a good person, you deserve someone who is just as good as you are.
How can you tell when someone is lying? This is fairly easy if you know how to pick up the body language of people. They'll often lie by covering their mouth with a hand, inching away from you or giving an odd smirk when you ask them something personal. A tell tale sign of lying is their eye movement. If you ask them something specific, they might look away from you shyly or even turn their whole body. This is a basic human reaction. It almost seems as if they look guilty while answering so be aware of this.
It is best to not take every relationship seriously since there are many people who lie. Think of it as the "dating game" and you are only there to find out who is sincere when it comes to dating you. With this approach, you will never become disappointed in someone so always expect the worst before you look into their positive traits. By guarding yourself, you will be able to find people who are truthful and not out to hurt you or make you feel like you don't have feelings.
Some people will lie about their history while others will tell small white lies when it comes to asking you about advice. Everyone lies every now and then but if they are lying about who they live with, where they come from, or even their race - these are some red flags. This shows they are not secure with who they are. Men tend to lie about their jobs and when some men say they don't have a job, a woman will look down on them.
However, all woman are not like this. Some prefer a working man while others would like a man to be at home all the time to raise children. This is normal in today's society so if you suspect they are lying about their job or anything minor - let them know it's okay to tell the truth and you are not there to judge them.
Everyone has been through financial issues in their life. Make sure you don't hound someone for telling a white lie. Many people will use white lies because they are too soft to tell the truth. They believe it may hurt the other person and they are looking out for your feelings before anything else. Don't give them a hard time for this because they are honestly trying to protect you.
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