You need to be sure a female is interested in you before you even think about kissing her. Flirt with her and flatter her; watch her reaction to get a sense of how she's feeling. See how she responds to a gentle stroking of her hair or an arm resting on her shoulders.
Get her permission before you lean in for a smooch once you know she's interested in you. In order to kiss a woman, hold her close and angle your head before putting lips to hers. ' Avoid puckering your lips or pushing your tongue into her mouth, and keep your lips gentle.
Make eye contact and a sincere grin towards her. Make sure you don't look away from her when you're staring at each other. Instead, maintain eye contact with her and grin only slightly. In order to show that you're interested in someone, it's best to keep your eyes on them and smile when you do. Even if she doesn't like you back, you can always claim that your eye contact and smile were just an act of kindness on your part.
Confidence is shown through making eye contact.
Don't gaze at something for more than a few seconds at a time. If you stare at someone aggressively for too long, it can come out as creepy.
To see how she responds to flirting, observe her body language. You may tell she's interested in you if she smiles back, maintains eye contact, and then looks away while still smiling. Without a smile, she may turn away or simply not respond, in which case you should assume she doesn't want to kiss you.
Listen to her body language, especially in the minutes building up to a kiss.
Pay attention to how she holds or carries her bag or backpack. If she grips it tightly while chatting to you, it could be an indication that she's apprehensive or terrified and isn't quite at ease with you yet. Consider leaving her alone and resuming your talk at a later time.
Keep your hands on hers or your arms around hers to show her that you care. If you were holding her hand or already had your arm around her as you turned to face her, keep it there as you face her. It's important to swiftly check her hands if you weren't the one holding her. Reach out to hold her hands if she has them in front of her. Put your arms around her waist if they're by her side and give her a hug.
Consider placing your hands on her shoulders if you don't feel comfortable holding her hand or embracing her in a full-body hug. The best of both worlds can be found in this position, which falls somewhere in the middle.
Make sure your arms aren't lowered to your sides unless it's a fun smooch. You'll appear uninterested in the kiss if you do this.
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